Every thing is priceless (Motivational Story -3)

Once a little boy walked into a pet house to buy a puppy And asked the store owner "How much are you going to sell the puppies for?"

The store owner replied, "Anywhere from 2000 Rs to 10000 Rs." 


The little boy reached in his pocket and pulled out some change. "I have 200  Rs," he said. "Can I please look at them?"

The store owner smiled and whistled and out of the kennel came Lady,  with five teeny, tiny balls of fur.One puppy was lagging considerably behind. Immediately the little boy singled out the lagging, limping puppy and said, "What's wrong with that little dog why it is not walking properly and what happend to his leg?"

The store owner said that the veterinarian had examined the little puppy and had found that it didn't have a hip socket. It would always limp. It would always be lame. And we are going to remove this from our shop because no one likes handicap pets.

The little boy became excited. "That is the puppy that I want to buy."

The store owner said, "No, you don't want to buy that little dog. If you really want him, I'll just give him to you.without any cost"

The little boy got quite upset. He looked straight into the store owner's eyes, pointing his finger, and said, "I don't want you to give him to me. That little dog is worth every bit as much as all the other dogs and I'll pay full price. In fact, I'll give you 800 Rs now, and 100 Rs a month until I have him paid for."

The store owner countered, "You really  want to buy this little dog. He is never going to be able to run and jump and play with you like the other puppies."

To his surprise, the little boy reached down and rolled up his pant leg to reveal a badly twisted, crippled left leg supported by a big metal brace. 

He looked up at the store owner and softly replied, "Well, I don't run so well myself, and the little puppy will need someone who understands!"

So never say worthless to any thing all things have there own importance . A worthless thing for you can be a priceless thing for other. The difference is of need and understanding.All want to be with who cares and understand him. If one is searching a friend then he will not search a rich or smart one he will go with one who understands him.

Always live with people who understands you not with the person you want to understand and live with. There is a best saying He who does not understand your silence will probably not understand your words
and
To want to understand is an attempt to recapture something we have lost
So always try to understand the front person in every relation and in difficult situation just walk in there shoes to know what they actually feel.

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Over Expectations can kill your happiness .

I will like to start this post by the great saying by Donald miller that

"When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are"

Now a common question comes that what is an expectation? . So don't worry nobody knows its answer. Its a kind of feeling according to me . And many people says that i don't expect any thing from any one .They are completely wrong ,all have some or more expectation from others some time they do not even feel that they have some expectation but when their expectation was not full filled then they realize that they are expecting somthing. As a human nature we expect from every where from our work,friends,family etc.

What is expectation?

Let you are living with you friend or better-half and daily he/she is coming late from office but still you waits him/her for dinner. Now this is where you are building expectation. Now you will expect that if some time you are coming late then he should also wait for you. And if a day comes when he/she  is early and you are late , and when you reaches at home you finds he had already taken his dinner now it will hurt you.So in short if you are doing some extra for someone to whom you care. You are building the expectation that the same should be return by them.

Caring and emotional people has high expectations

                If you are living with someone who cares you much or you have a much caring friend then its a tough job for you to manage and fulfill his expectations . And if you are not of that type (sharing caring )then you have to put extra effort to maintain the relation . And you have to read their action and listen to the unspoken words. Always remember if someone loves you, then you are the person responsible if he/she gets hurt . People who are over emotional wants someone who cares for them and same they want to do for him. So always remember if they are doing something special for you that means they  will be more happy if you do the something for them.
                 So you can the people who are always ready to help other has more expectation. Because when they are helping others  ,they are building the expectation that they will surely help me when i will need them.And this is the good point with selfish one they never help they never expect.

You can run from expectation but you can reduce them

I also discuses in my poem. few lines are

Expectations are every where, They comes like a rain.
 But you should carry your umbrella, That develops under your brain.



If looking practically you can find expectation every

* A student expects good marks
* A worker expects good wages
* A Artist Expects Appreciation
* A Farmer Expects good production
* A Friend expects that all other friend should care him.
* A Servicemen expects good hikes
* A company expects good results
And lots more never ending list

These all are good and necessary for human growth but do not create expectation in return like

* Helping someone and expecting same
* Expecting too much from your loving ones.
* Your expectation restricts others independence
* Comparing from others and Expecting

Ways to live happy and limit your expectation

* Don't expect much from any individual person, everyone has there own limits .If you can do 80% for someone that's your limit and if he can returns 50% then this is his limit. Respect it and not be over demanding.

*Try to expect less because every thing we get beyond expectations are surprises ,So if you will expect less you will get more surprises.And if you expects much you will not get any surprises.

* If you are caring someone too much but no response, leave at that point  only their are many other waiting for you. Don't run behind anyone too much just leave them and you will find if they really cares for you they will come back

* If you cant give much to your relation . Clearly make some limits of relation every relation has its own limit . and make clear to other also about your feeling and thinking. And never expect a one way traffic . means he should do every thing for you if you can do for someone ask him also not to do much for you.

* Time is most powerful think don't expect any thing beyond it. It takes time for ever thing whether it is a job , relation or business so give time and think twice.

And the best one, never live in past. Don't think too much of past and all bad memories it effects on you  mind what you think is what you are. so always think positive and give every one a second chance. 
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