Confidence is nothing but believing in yourself (Motivational story 5)

In a beauty full morning a old man was jogging in a park and enjoying the melodious sound of birds . When he passed through a bench he saw a man sitting with a sad face . the old man went near him and asked  "I can see that something is troubling you"
then man told yes i am in problem but sorry you cant help me so leave me alone.
old man replied can you just tell me the reason .

Man told "I am a business man and lost every thing in my business and i am deep in debt.Suppliers were demanding payment and explained his problem"
by hearing all his words 
the old man said, "I believe I can help you." 

He asked the man his name, wrote out a check, and pushed it into his hand saying, "Take this money. Meet me here exactly one year from today, and you can pay me back at that time."  Then old man turned and disappeared as quickly as he had come. 

The business man saw in his hand a check for 1 crore Rs signed by  one of the richest men in the world! 

"I can erase my money worries in an instant!" he realized. But instead, the business man decided to put the un-cashed check in his safe. Just knowing it was there might give him the strength to work out a way to save his business, he thought. 

With energized optimism, he negotiated better deals and extended terms of payment. He closed several big sales. Within a few months, he was out of debt and making money once again. 

Exactly one year later, he returned to the park with the un-cashed check. At the agreed-upon time, the old man appeared. But just as the executive was about to hand back the check and share his success story, a nurse came running up and grabbed the old man. 

"I'm so glad I caught him!" she cried. "I hope he hasn't been bothering you. He's always escaping from the rest home and telling people he's one of  richest men in the world! "  And she led the old man away by the arm. 

The astonished executive just stood there, stunned. All year long he'd been wheeling and dealing, buying and selling, convinced he had 1 Crore  Rs behind him. Suddenly, he realized that it wasn't the money, real or imagined, that had turned his life around. It was his new-found self-confidence that gave him the power to achieve anything he went after. 

Confidence is nothing but believing in yourself. Always be confident never underestimate yourself.
Confidence is nothing but vision held positively .  It comes from ones own commitment and dedication to ones vision. We are the only person on earth who can use our ability and for that we just need confidence and action. With confidence, we can reach truly amazing heights.

11 ways to keep your self happy and joyful.

Once one of my good friend told me that you will never get happiness until and unless you want to be happy . you have to happy. its like practice if you are avoiding negative thoughts for two days then on third you can feel the difference.It sounds odd but its true if you tries to be happy and you are not allowing negative thoughts to put you down.You can feel a positive change.
Some points i follow are:-

1) Never bring office or work space tension to home. they are paying you for working hours only so when you are at home thing about other things not of work. its good to work hard but more of everything is not good

2) If you have some issue with some one don't create your questions and answers just go to the guy and ask him one to one
if you raise a question against him in your mind and you only give its answer according to you.

3) Don't stop talking to any one because its the only way to resolve problems. you can fight,blame each other and show your anger but conversation should not be stopped.

4) Never thing negative because what you thinks that only happens. so always think positive

5) Don't keep all your problems in your mind just take a problem think about it and forgot about it.

6) Don't worry too much about any thing because it will not change anything you will only loose your peace.

7) Never I mean never sit free. you should have your list of works you have to complete when you are free. if you sits free then your mind will recall all your bad memories and it will make you upset so what you can do it just make a list of things that will make you busy when you are free. and the list will mainly include your hobbies and fields of interest. So if you are busy in some thing you will not get time to be upset.

8) If your are already upset then what to do , nothing just pick up your cell and call your friends and family. or just open your net and search for jokes and nice quotes or watch TV the main aim is to remove the thoughts from your mind and fill with the new ones.

9) Must do the work which satisfies you as i have described in my previous post You have abilities, skills, knowledge and experience but are you on right place?

10) Try to play with children or spend some times with you pets . if you are living alone then a pet is one of the mandatory thing for you just buy it and care it.

11) Sadness,happiness,joy all these thing are just games of mind . if you wont mind it will not matter that's all take every thing lightly and blow it in joke. if you will take your life seriously it will become to complicated and if you take it light it becomes fun now its up to you what you have to do.

Its not about busy ,its about priority (Motivational story-4)

Once in a philosophy class a professor entered into the class with a large glass in his hand and some balls and pebbles. Without speaking a single word he picked the jar and filled it with golf balls.
He then asked the students, is the jar is full.They agreed that it was full.
then he kept it genitally and added some pebbles in it from the box he bought.
and raised the jar and asked the same question to the students
Is the jar is full.They agreed that it was full.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the 
sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students 
responded with a unanimous 'YES.'

Then he took two cups of water from under the table and poured the entire 

contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand.  The 

students laughed. 

'Now,' said the professor,   as the laughter subsided,  'I want you to recognize that 

this jar represents your life. 

The golf balls are the most important things - family, 
children, health, friends, and favorite passions – things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. 

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car. 

The sand is everything else --The small stuff. 

'If you put the sand into the jar first,'  He continued, there is no room for  the 

pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. 

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, You will never have room for 
The things that are important to you.the first priority should be the most important thing in anyone life that is family, children, health, friends, and favorite passions. These are the thing which do not depends on your wealth or money they are the one  who will support you till end. 

So must save 5 min in a day for :-
1) Calling a old friend after a long time
2) Call your parents and family.
3) Spent time for your hobby
4) Do something creative.
5) Sit for sometime alone and see what u have done in whole day.
6)Site for sometime with your friends and family.


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